10 Ways for Men to Last Longer In Bed
In the world of s*xuality, perhaps nothing is so misunderstood as Premature Ej*culation. It is the butt of an endless onslaught of jokes and the cause of just as many worries, as men around the world continue to lose all kinds of confidence with every new p*nis drug that is released.
Masters and Johnson defines PE as the condition where a man ej*culates before his s*x partner achieves org*sm, in more than fifty percent of their s*xual encounters. Other s*x researchers have defined premature ej*culation as occurring if the man ej*culates within two minutes of pen*tration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ej*culate within two minutes of pen*tration in over half of their s*xual encounters. Self reported surveys report up to 75% of men ej*culate within 10 minutes of pen*tration. Today, most s*x therapists understand premature ej*culation as occurring when a lack of ej*culatory control interferes with s*xual or emotional well-being in one or both partners. – Wikipedia
Look fellas: the point is that the vast majority of males has “suffered” from one or more of the above noted conditions at some point in his life, if he is s*xually active. Lucky for all of us, there are some small, but often quite helpful, tips we can try during the middle of our love-making escapades:
1. Squeeze your p*nis! Perhaps the most practical tip around, but it makes sense. If you squeeze the p*nis just below the head, you can greatly reduce blood flow, which is the main cause of stimulation. Plus, the head of the p*nis is the most sensitive part in general, so it all kind of works out. Simply squeeze gently for a good 5-30 seconds (however much time you can spare). Just don’t do it in such a way that, well, gets you off.
2. Think disgusting thoughts. Definitely not practical, but hey, it really works for some guys. Look down and imagine you are sticking it in Quasimodo or something. I don’t know, you decide. Anything that makes you want to throw up and is a complete turn-off… go for it.
3. Cause pain to your body. Okay let’s qualify that tip: cause pain to your body somewhere else besides your shlong! For the record, this is also a good way to p*ss a polygraph test while lying – and for the same reasons. It distracts your brain to focus on the most urgent matter at hand, which is ALWAYS pain. Biting your tongue is usually a favorite strategy, and probably the easiest to perform while under the sheets.
4. Only go tip deep. Recall Vince Vaughn’s monologue in “The Wedding Crashers” … where he proposes playing “a little game called ‘just the tip’ … just for a second!”… yah, you get the point. This takes some practice to find the angle that still feels good to her, but also gives him a small break from the “deeper” action. Anyway, good luck with your experimentation.
5. Go slower sometimes. Seriously. It’s a simple tip, but it’s one that we all forget when the lights go out. You aren’t in a race! Not only do you not always need to be in “deep” but you also don’t always need to go fast. A little change-up in speed never hurt nobody – and in fact, most girls will probably appreciate a little down time. It becomes a bit of a mental game as the minutes tick onward, so show some self-control and work on your pace.
7. Take some sort of break. Some of you might wonder how Fabio can last for 45 minutes in that latest Jenna Jameson video. Well if you cut out the 25 minutes of slap and tickle in the beginning, and factor out the 5 different drugs he took before the shoot, you’ll notice quite a few camera angle changes. This is because the average p*rn video is actually filmed across 3 days of shooting! So stop beating yourself up. Fabio’s other trick is that he takes frequent “breaks” whether it be from changing positions, grabbin’ a BJ here and there, and what not. The point is that if you want to last *super* long, you are going to need some regular breaks.
8. Clear the tubes beforehand. If you don’t want to be a minuteman on a big date, or screw up a romantic night with your woman, then it never hurts to unload your gun before you go out, and it usually helps you last longer later on. There is really no better way to illustrate this point than quoting from “There’s Something About Mary”…
Dom: You choke the chicken before any big date, don’t you? Tell me you spank the monkey before any big date. Oh my God, he doesn’t flog the dolphin before a big date. Are you crazy? That’s like going out there with a loaded gun! Of course that’s why you’re nervous. Oh my dear friend, please sit, please. Look, um, after you’ve had s*x with a girl, and you’re lying in bed with her, are you nervous? No, you’re not, why?
Ted: Cause I’m tired…
Dom: Wrong! It’s ’cause you ain’t got the baby batter on the brain anymore! Jesus, that stuff will f*ck you’re head up! Look, the most honest moment in a man’s life are the few minutes after he’s blown his load – now that is a medical fact. And the reason for it is that you’re no longer trying to get laid, you’re actually… you’re thinking like a girl, and girls love that.
9. Practice flexing your pubococcygeus. This is probably the best kept s*x secret in the entire universe. Both men and women have what are commonly referred to as Kegel muscles, named after Dr. Arnold Kegel. These are the muscles that you squeeze when you are trying to stop peeing mid-stream! It’s nearly impossible for most males, because we never practice flexing them. If you can build up strength and control of these muscles, however, not only can you learn to “hold in” your ej*culation for longer, but you can also have larger ej*culations because you will be able to blast more sem*n out of your system – and farther. Not only so, but rumor has it that some guys have learned to jack themselves off using only their Kegel muscles. Talk about weird sh*t.
10. If all else fails… Viagra. Okay, this is somewhat of a joke as we hope you don’t give up on the above methods. However, if you do finally give in and have tried everything, you might as well give some drugs a go. There are absolutely TONS these days, so do your research first. Some of them merely give you a m*ssive b*ner and might make it harder for you to last longer – who knows. Others are designed specifically for bigger org*sms or for lasting longer, or both, or neither.
Good luck, you motorboatin’ son of a b*tch!
As a women who loves s*x, I’ve also found a total lack of foreplay by men. Perhaps the attitude of “wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am” has someting to do with it.
As the saying goes, women need a reason to have s*x – men just need a place. One of the coolest things I’ve come across (no pun intended) is a small foreplay game that absolutely makes both partners take their time, and realy enjoy lenghty foreplay. Believe me when I say, it not only builds incredible s*xual tension for both parties, but prolongs the foreplay for as long as either of us (or you) can hold out.
I love this game because it makes my man take his time, slowly exploring my entire body. (I’m getting horny just thinking about it!) My guy finally told me he loves it too, because it made me do things he thought I would never do. Honestly, if it weren’t for the game telling us what to do (and where to do it) to each other, I probably never would have done those things. (But having done them, I enjoyed it and they are now part of my (our) repertoire.
The game is travel size so it’s easy to take out with you. I bring it whenever we leave school to go somewhere for the weekend, or over breaks when we spend he nights at hotels or at friends’ houses..
When I bought it, it was on sale for around $11.00. I can’t belive that’s all it cost to get my man to stop playing “wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am” and take an hour or so to keep warming me up even before we “get into our own thing”.
This game is a GREAT way to help a guy last a LOT longer in bed, while at the same time, satisfying us women in ways that WE like. Really, the s*xual tension, to quote one of their testimonials, is INSANELY INTENSE. (But in a gentle, totally erotic and prolonged way!) There are times it got so hot, we couldn’t even get through the game before just attacking each other.
The game is called “The Hollywood Foreplay Game”. I can’t remember their exact web addy, but I’m sure if you Google it, you’ll find it.
Much as I hate to say it, the main problem is as WildWendy said: men look at s*x as nothing more than stress relief and instant gratification. It’s also the main reason for s*xual dissatisfaction among women. If guys actually took the time for actual foreplay, not only would they notice their woman being more responsive and active (and more open-minded to suggestions), they’d also learn that by getting a woman all hot and bothered before hand (that doesn’t mean just getting her wet enough to stick it in), it makes it easier for her to come through interco*rse. With that in mind, it doesn’t really matter overmuch how quick you blow your load (unless you blow it the moment you put it in).
On the other hand, though, p*rn and romance movies/novels have screwed things up to no end. Through p*rn, men have been conditioned to believe that a woman wants an 8″ (or bigger) d*ck plowing into her like a jackhammer for nearly an hour and that a woman is open to anything. Through romance movies/novels, women have been conditioned to believe that s*x consists of love and tenderness (which it can, but it’s not a requirement), as well as hours of s*x with that same 8″ d*ck that brings her to an earth-shattering org*sm and only THEN does the man come. This is so disproportionate to real life that it’s no wonder men look at s*x as a wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am affair while being secretly disappointed because they’re not as big as the guys in p*rn while women are openly disappointed with the lack of pleasure, size, their general distaste for s*x (the rare s*x loving woman notwithstanding).
I don’t know if anyone noticed, but there is no 6.
6. Get a long slow bj first whilst giving cunnilingus.
thanks for the tip now if only i can get my p*nis to stay hard and how to make it bigger
Thanks for the tips, another good tip that never fails to deliver is to give her oral s*x before pen*tration, you are guaranteed to give her multiple org*sms with this one.
Use masturbation as a way to train yourself to last longer before you ej*culate. Bring yourself to the edge of ej*culation – then exercise your will-power and stop! Do this with dedication and focus, so that you don’t tip over into ej*culation.
Don’t panic! Tοο many people аrе being pushed over thе edge, rіɡht tο ej*culation, bесаυѕе thеу mentally bеɡіn tο panic whеn thеу feel close tο org*sm.
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All of my college boyfriends take Deferol, a non-prescription clim*x control supplement for men so they last longer in bed. They know that longer s*x is better s*x, and better s*x means more s*x. I won’t tolerate guys that leave the party too soon. Deferol works and guys can buy Deferol online at Walgreens.com and CVS.com. Your girlfriends and you will appreciate this clim*x control capsule. Deferol works without numbing.
No. 9 is the only one that is helpful though nowhere near enough detail. There are lots of ways to delay ej*culation but only one way to put yourself in complete control. It is absolutely possible to train yourself so that you decide when you ej*culate.
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To make a girl clim*x. Works everytime have her on top grab her hips and rock her back and fort. While she is all the way down. I learned that it hits the clitorus at the same time. She will clim*x in less than one minute. I have never met one that could resist it. I even had one that never had a org*sm and it work for her to.
try to use different s*x positions,this will delay a man.also when you ar about to ej*culate,just try to think of something weird. zambia
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you shuld b start from up, u asked her would u like long just come up to me i m sure she trough 7time water.
don’t worry some day it will gradually get better, besides you can always rest and go at it again later. Back in my day the women i was in lust with was taught to keep herself locked , anyway for me just rubbing up against her would cause an ej*culation, but as time p*ssed and the more s*x we had the less of a problem premature ej*culation became. No one back then knew about oral s*x , I learned about it later with a younger ,horny women who would respond with many org*sms prior to pen*tration. But alas as you age your desire diminishes and you need more stimulation to get off. So don’t worry take the way it is for what it is and explain to your mate how excited you get and that you need to spend more time with her to get it right and to love her whole body and practice oral s*x on her, she will probably enjoy every moment and so will you.Be safe!
i hink number 10 is all wrong the drug to give a go has to be, hands down marijuana. you can last as long as you want and s*x feels so much better and you get better control. plus its healthy complete non-harmful and natural unlike all those pills your taking which are made up of bunch of chemicals that could be harmful and some lead to some serious health defects
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My girlfriend is so smokin’ hot…I wasn’t able to last more than 2 minutes with my eyes open. A good friend told me his secret for lasting longer in bed is Deferol capsules since it controls premature ej*culation. Deferol definitely works for me too and it helps me go longer. Now, It’s easy to satisfy her with my eyes open and the lights on.
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1. Get the girl on the top and let her play.
2. Do not think too much about s*x.
3. Do not let the girl touch the s*x at the begiing.
4. But when it is about to come let squeees the testicanls (2balls) heavily till you get ache.
5 let her bit you.
I use a topical gel to last longer. Trust me it works a treat and comes in a very concealable packaging. Helps me last for 30 minutes. My record is making my woman org*sm nine times in a row and trust me you can tell by looking into her glazed eyes rolling back.
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I lasted an hour and a half without using any durgs or whatever (im 16) well thats my record but dman sometimes it takes 45 seconds im goin crazy!
Ephedrine and vodka in combination used to work great but I don’t drink anymore and ephedrine is off the market. Anyone ever tried a c*ck ring? Was curious if they work.
smoke a blunt after drinking you’ll never stop even if u just smoke you will last longer. no idea y
Ive always noticed that taking painkillers, xanax, or alcohol helps last longer. i believe it is because the painkillers make you kind of numb, which doesnt it make it feel that great, but still good. xanax and alcohol slows down your thoughts which also help you last longer. ive pounded for a good 30minutes-1 hour on lortabs ^^. i love them, wish i had them everytime i was f*cking!
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You are all pussies.
Pop an adderall before you go to town. Works wonders
id say keep your mind off it while your doing it, it helps a lot for me.
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Number 2 is not relevant in this town, Quasimodo would look like Jenna Haze compared to some of the swamp donkeys round here.
Before having s*x go down on her make her aquart and then f*ck f*ck her brains out works ever time from me (xiaco)
i need help, my husband lasts like 30 seconds in bed we have been married for six months i have never been satisfied after s*x ever, dont know what to do. Please help
Eat sh*t
Frustrated wife I will fu*k the sh*t out of you
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Hey have your man jack off a couple times before you have s*x or jack him off. Or you could always get you a toy and have him use it on you. That would do 2 things it would please you and make him want to please you better than the toy would. If that doesnt work make him go slow and stop wen he feels the ej*culation coming on and trust me he can feel it and play with yourself the hole time.
I got a girl Im realy in to that wants me to stay over night When her dad goes outa town Next week i need help now i last 6 mins on average. Does smokein green realy help?
Try thinking of a complicated task that you know and like well. Then go over the task in your mind. Works great for me. I tie fishing knots.lol
It pains wen i cant satisfy my gal
just get your mind off the sh*t when do it..pretnd as if diaz no one wit u, it does magic 4 me
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I have 6 months having s*x with my bf. He is the first guy in my life but I haven’t reach an org*sm …what should I do?
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My bf his jus not sattisfying me at all in bed I want a good f*ck! But I do enjoy the foreplay but how do I get him to last??
FUK A REAL MAN!! Like me ill.last till ur PUSSY DRY!!
It’s easy for guys to last longer in bed with Deferol capsules. Deferol lets the fun last longer for everybody and no numbing.
Me n my husband have tried all of this and over the counter drugs but it just don’t seem to help him last longer.. The foreplay is great and we have several toys but I would rather it be him inside me then the toy but he never last more than 1 min. And ideas he can’t take n of the s*x pills anymore due to his job the do drug test n the pills show up in them
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well, men were made to be brave but nothing is more stronger than being in bed with the person you do love. i have liked the comments and i do thank you
Does No.8 actually work?
My man makes me fun by just looking at him so I’m *ssuming that its because of my s*xual attraction and what i know he’s capable of. But here is a tip hat helped me in the past. Have your man eat u until you feel ur clim*x comin then stop him and have him immediately stick it in and go for it. It worked like a charm every time previously for me.
My man makes me come by just looking at him. So I’m *ssuming It’s because of my s*xual attraction to him and plus I know what he’s capable of. But here’s a tip that helped me in the past. Have your man eat you until you feel your clim*x coming. Then stop him immediately and have him stick it in and go for it. It worked like a charm every time previously for me.
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